I have a habit of wanting to make people happy regardless of if I make myself unhappy in the process.
While that in itself is not bad per se, I have realized that if bending over backwards in a particular instance is going to give me a back ache I can't take at that moment, then I'll just have to say NO!
Saying no is difficult, especially when there are emotions involved, but remembering that doing something unwillingly is worse than not doing it at all sometimes helps.
Next time, I'll just say NO!! So help me God!! :-!
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